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When It Feels Like You Have Nothing to Show For Your Life

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"When It Feels Like You Have Nothing to Show for Your Life" By Tay Nicole | Glowing Victoriously There’s a moment—sometimes quiet, sometimes loud—where you sit in the stillness of your life and feel the crushing weight of “I have nothing to show for this.” Maybe it hits you on your birthday. Maybe after scrolling social media. Or maybe it comes after another long day where everything felt pointless. It’s not just a thought. It’s a gut-wrenching , soul-shaking ache. Like your existence has been a blur of survival with no fruit, no applause, no visible progress. Just trying... and trying... and trying. But here’s what that feeling actually means. The Real Meaning Behind That Feeling That feeling isn’t always rooted in truth—it’s rooted in disconnection . Disconnection from your value , disconnection from your progress , and disconnection from God’s timing . When you feel like you have nothing to show, what you’re really mourning is the gap between your expectation...

Die to the Old, So the New Can Flourish

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Die to the Old, So the New Can Flourish By Tay Nicole | Glowing Victoriously There comes a time in every woman’s journey where she must make a choice: to cling to the comfort of who she’s always been, or to surrender and step into the woman God is calling her to become. Dying to your old self is not just a metaphor—it’s a spiritual necessity. Just like a seed must be buried in darkness before it bursts forth in bloom, so must we release the old version of ourselves for the new to flourish. The process isn’t pretty. It’s uncomfortable. It requires you to let go of the familiar voices, behaviors, and beliefs that kept you stuck in cycles of brokenness. The version of you who tolerated toxic relationships, operated in fear, or hid behind insecurity—she can’t go where God is taking you. That version served a purpose for a season, but now… it’s time for her to rest. Romans 6:6 reminds us, “We know that our old self was crucified with Him so that the body ruled by sin might be rendered power...

Daughter, He Sees You Devotional

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✨ Daughter, He Sees You – A 3-Day Healing Devotional There are moments in life when we wonder, “God, do You see me?” — when the pain feels loud, the silence feels long, and the healing feels far away. I created this 3-day devotional for every woman who’s ever felt overlooked, forgotten, or too broken to be used by God. It’s for the praying mothers, the silent warriors, the ones carrying hidden grief and untold stories. Each day will remind you of this truth: You are still seen. You are still called. You are still His. _______________ 💖 What You’ll Receive: A daily scripture and healing reflection A heartfelt prayer A bold affirmation to declare over your life A journal prompt to help you process with God ________________ 📥 Download Your Free Devotional Now: 👉  Click Here to access “Daughter, He Sees You” Let this devotional be your reminder: God never took His eyes off you. You're not disqualified. You're not invisible. You're deeply known — and you're rising again....

Will I Still Be Vindicated, God?

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God, Did I Mess Up My Own Vindication? By Tay Nicole | Glowing Victoriously Have you ever been in that place where you’re doing your best to “be still and wait on the Lord,” but the weight of the injustice against you starts to crush your silence? You cry. You pray. You say nothing to the person who keeps wounding you. You try to be mature, spiritual, obedient. But then it happens — you crack. You vent. You shout. You gossip out of pain. Not to retaliate, but because you’re tired. Because holding it in is heavy. Because no one seems to see what they’re doing to you. I’ve been there. Lately, I’ve asked God in my rawest moments: "Did I mess up my own vindication by venting?" "Will You still defend me even after I let my mouth run?" And maybe, you’ve been wondering that too. --- The Short Answer? Yes, God Will Still Vindicate You. God is not like man. He doesn’t throw away your cry for justice because of a moment of frustration. His justice doesn’t depend on your emoti...

Heal First, Build Stronger

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Sis, let’s get real—building a business is not just about strategy, branding, or followers. It’s about wholeness . You can have the perfect website, a powerful offer, and all the right tools, but if you’re battling low self-worth, unhealed trauma, or fear of being seen, your business will feel like a constant uphill battle. You’ll second-guess your voice, delay launching, play small with your prices, and silently wonder if you’re truly qualified to lead. That’s why healing has to come first. God gave you the vision, but He’s also inviting you to become the version of you who can carry that vision with clarity, confidence, and conviction. When you heal, you stop building from survival mode and start building from a place of peace and purpose . Healing helps you: Speak up without shrinking Market without feeling like a fraud Price your worth without guilt Set boundaries with clients, coworkers, or collaborations Stay grounded when business is slow or success feels scary Your...

You’re the Mom for the Job: Trusting Your Own Parenting Journey

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Mama, take a breath. You’re doing better than you think. In a world full of picture-perfect Pinterest moms, Instagram highlight reels, and unsolicited advice from every direction—including well-meaning relatives—it’s easy to question whether you’re getting this whole parenting thing “right.” But here’s the truth: you are the mom your children need. Not your mom. Not your grandma. Not that influencer on social media. You. Let Go of Comparison and the Past Many of us were raised in homes where love was shown in ways we now question—or not shown at all. Maybe your parents did the best they could with what they knew. Maybe you’ve made a silent vow to parent differently, to break cycles and create something new. That is brave. That is powerful. But even then, doubt creeps in. You start comparing your style to how you were raised—wondering if you're too soft, too strict, too playful, too serious. You question whether skipping certain traditions makes you less of a “real” mom. Let me remi...

5 Ways to Regulate Your Emotions When Mom Life Feels Too Much

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Motherhood can be beautiful, fulfilling, and rewarding, but let’s be real—it can also be overwhelming. As a mom, you’re juggling a million things: from caring for your little ones to managing household duties, work, and everything in between. It's easy to feel like your emotions are spiraling out of control when life feels too much. But here’s the thing— you don’t have to let your emotions take the wheel. By learning how to regulate your emotions in the moment, you can navigate motherhood with more peace and clarity. Here are 5 simple ways to regulate your emotions when you’re feeling overwhelmed as a mom: 1. Take a Breather (Literally) When you're feeling overwhelmed, the first step is often to simply step away . This could mean going into a different room for a few minutes, stepping outside to get some fresh air, or even locking yourself in the bathroom for a moment of solitude. Breathing deeply and allowing yourself space to reset can do wonders for your emotional st...